How to be Confident and Happy

Hello beautiful peoples in the internet, Happy New Year 2015! I hereby wishing you all have a prosperous year ahead! 

This is the my first blog for year 2015 and this blog would be all about how to be confident and happy. We all know no matter we happy or sad, we still have to move on in everyday doesn't it? Yes, indeed it is easy to say but difficult to do. But why not we try to work it out right? I am not good in Chinese language or even in English but i try to write more in Chinese and even I go to take Chinese examination SPM to prove I can! I am not good in English and you might be find few grammatical error when you reading my blog, but I still trying to use English to communicate internationally and even using English words to write my blog here. So, there is no reasons or excuses for us to say we can't do this and that. 

Lets get started on my topic today: 

"How to be Confident and Happy?"

What do we need to be confident?

• We just need a trust on ourselves
• we just need to be confident
• we just need a try 
• we just need a motivation in our heart 
• we just need a believe on ourselves before we judge ourselves

I list down 3 which I personally think that it is important for me or for us to apply in our life:

It's just simple point starting with letter of A, B, and C

• A ------ Affirmation for yourself
• B ------ Believe
• C ------ Care no more

A ----- Affirmation for yourself:

• How to affirm yourself? There is a lot of motivation quotes that you could found through Facebook/ Instagram or even by searching at Google web. Find powerful words to beef up your statement. I am the one who always do that especially when I feeling down. Believe it or not, it totally can change your state of mind and overcome confidence crisis. 
• When you l read quotes that you found at somewhere and at the same time the quote that you read is totally match with your feeling, it can indirectly changed your thoughts on your rough day! This is what I had experienced. The feeling is so good and its really calm your mind and even feeling more motivate. Of course, you need to put yourself into the quote only you can felt that way. :) 

B ----- Believe:

• Be- lieve is you accept the something as true; feel sure about the truth.
• To have faith, confidence and trust.
• Belief in yourself grows by improving self-esteem to feel more potential of ourselves.
• Besides, learning new workplace skills, reading books, meet new peoples, travelling or go out for a walk can change the way you feel about yourself.
• Sometimes walking away has nothing to do with weakness, and everything to do with strength. We walk away not because we want others to realize our worth and value, but finally realize our OWN.
• Learning new skills or good education, its indirectly or directly can boost up your self-esteem. Because the point is your mind and attitude will changed by that time at least become a more mature woman or man ever. Every girls want to be a gorgeous, a glam girl with intelligence ever. Who does not want to? I want it!  The more you know, the more books you read, the more you'll get! Reading might be easily to get bored but you can try to read fav magazine. I guess you probably love magazine more than thick novel... I mean we all do love doesn't it ? hahahaha :) 

C ----- Care no more:

• Stop yourself for being care too much on what people say or judging!
• In fact, we can't control what people want to say about us, judging us this and that, complaining our weaknesses, jealousy or saying something negatively and hurting in front of you. But...it can't finalize or conclude or even made us to become the bad guys like they said! Everyone of us is special. I mean you are amazing and special for everyone all over the world. No ones can replaced! You're different than anyone! when life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile. :)

People talk behind your back for 3 reasons:-

1. When they can't reach your level.
2. When they don't have, what you have.
3. When they try to copy your life style, but can't.

** See how great and how special you are. 

• There are so many people out there who will tell you that you can't... have you experienced on it? Why not we take this as an opportunity as our option to change our thoughts, to motivate us, to build our strength and make ourselves grow stronger than before! 
• Be a front row person, trust our abilities and shut down the negative voice inside your head! 
  

Start today, walk tall and proud! Changing your posture by straighten up and speed up your step. You can feel the immediate surge of confidence!

THE END! 

*** Thank you all the readers out there, thanks for your support and viewing my blog. This whole article is just about my opinions and harm no ones. Hoping it can gives motivation or inspired you.

*** Wish u have a pleasant day! Lets shine together.